It never seems to amaze me anymore, when it comes to dealing with certain people in this world. People are so quick to take offense to something a person said. You know, it's understandable that some people rather not talk about a certain subject, but instead of nicely stating to that person you rather not hear about that, they go and talk behind your back.
Then when you try to find out who said what, so you can talk about everything, everyone is in denial mode. I'm sorry, but I'm a grown ass man. If i have the need to say something about someone, I'm going to find that someone and say it directly to them, not behind their back. To me, that's just being immature in itself.
I'm saying this for a reason, mainly because of something I was involved with in the past recent weeks, where someone got offended by something that was said and what makes everything bad, it wasn't that big of a deal to start with, at least not to myself. I'll probably never get this solved, due to the type of people I'm dealing with.
All I can do now, is offer some advice for other people out there. If someone says/does something that offends you or someone around you, just tell him/her the situation and more than likely, they will leave the subject alone. No need in talking behind that person's back, as it will just cause more drama, at the end of the day.
Byrd©
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