Most women these days, say they want a man that will be faithful to them. A man that can treat them right. Men that can communicate with them. Right? Unfortunately, everyone has cheated on their significant other in some way, shape, or form in their life. So, the true question to ask is why?
Personally, I don't think it's alright to cheat on someone that you supposedly truly care about. That's just my opinion on the matter. If you want to know why guys cheat, there's multiple factors that influence their minds. Now, I bet your wondering what those factors include, right?
* Women that are too controlling.
* Women that are dishonest.
* Women that "kiss & tell".
Now I'll touch on the top 3 above references:
Women That Are Too Controlling
Women, if you have a man that had prior women in his life, that were simply friends, don't attempt to make him choose between being with you or dropping his friends. That's fighting a losing battle. A "REAL" man won't be with a woman that tries to act like his mother.
Most women would say that it's disrespectful for their man to hangout with his homegirls. I'm going to disagree with that. I think that if a guy had friends, just like if a woman had friends, prior to the both of you getting together, their shouldn't be anything wrong with hanging out with them.
Long as the both of you are spending the bulk of your time together, with each other. I'm not saying it's alright to blowoff your partner for your friend, because that would be really messed up and there is something wrong with that. It just wouldn't be fair to either person.
Women That Are Dishonest
Ladies, if you EVER lie to your man about anything of importance, chances are there are going to be problems in the future. Same thing goes for all the guys as well. When a guy thinks a woman is lying about something important, but he can't figure out what, chances are he will end up cheating on you.
Mainly because in his mind, he's thinking that your probably cheating on him. Yeah it's stupid, but that how a lot of guys think. That's why it's really important to have open communication with your partner at all times. Otherwise, simple misunderstandings can turn into something bigger than it should be.
Women That Kiss & Tell
This is the most important rule for women and men to follow. NEVER talk about your sex life with your girlfriends or homeboys. You think this would be simple, but most people can't follow this rule. Think about a couple things and you'll understand why I say this is important.
Chances are, when you tell your girlfriends about your sex life, one of two things will end up happening. One, if you say your man is good in the sack, they will more than likely become curious and want to find out for themselves. I've seen that happen in my lifetime with friends.
The other thing that can happen, if you say that your man is not that great in the sack, they will more than likely think your lying, considering most women won't stay with a man that can't please them. Unless your a woman that doesn't care about the sexual aspect of a relationship.
The same rules apply to the guys. Your homboys will be the first one's to get curious and that's why it's best to just leave out that information from your friends and it will cut down on the problems. Trust me, it will save you a lot of drama in your life and keep your relationship in tact longer.
Final Thoughts
That's just a few of the things that cause people to cheat in their relationships. I'll be posting another blog within the near future, with more of my opinions. So, feel free to stay tuned and leave comments on this blog with your opinions.
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