Let me ask ALL of you a question. Do you ever have the feeling of neglect? You know, friends that you hangout with and pretend to be cool in your face, but then you know for a FACT they are talking about you behind your back?
I've experienced this on multiple occasions in my life. I think the funny part about the whole thing, is the fact of them asking for your help after the fact. These people remain clueless that you already know what was said.
You think it would be easy to confront a person, in which it's really easy to do, but unfortunately MOST, not all, always deny the fact that they said anything to start with. Also, confronting a person normally cause more problems.
I just wish that people would learn how to be upfront with someone and just state how you feel about that certain person. I find it easier to say my peace and get it over with, rather than hold it all inside and pretend all is well.
What is a person to do in a situation like that? My solution is simple, just don't associate with those people and be done with it, once you confront them about it. I was raised to speak my mind and that exactly who I am as a person.
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